My friend YM'ed me when she saw me signed in. It's been awhile since we met. She's one of my best girl friends ever. She's beautiful, sweet and yet very outspoken. And yes, our friendship is quite platonic. She would often bug me if she had love issues.
She is almost 30 years old this December. She has no boyfriend and the time is almost over for her, as she would often describe it. She's pretty much worried. For lots of women, being 30 isn't that easy. Their biologically clock is ticking and having a baby at this age would be an issue and so much more of having a husband.
I would always tease her na magpabuntis na lang sya sa kahit kanino basta maganda ang genes. She would often reply na kung ganun kadali yun at slut sya, why not! But she isn't and that's the problem. Here is an excerpt from our conversation:
friendim planning to have a baby no
medati may mga drama ka
mengayun wala na
meay sino naman ang ama
mesi ano?
friend'by next year or d ff year
friendewan pa pinapadala ni Lord
friendhahaha
meat next yer pa uli [ag hindi natuloy
friendbut i believe na darating next year
menext yr na lang uli kung hindi pa din natuloy
mehahaha
meako din i believe
mehhehhe
friendpapadala ni Lord
friendat mag aasawa na din ako
friendhahaha!
friendun n focus ko now
friendi mean un na gusto ko mangyari
mekung hndi ok lang...basta maanakan ayus n ayun!
friendready and prepared na kasi me for that
friendwat do u think abt sa situation na
menext year may mga anak na tayu
friendmay asawa
friendpero tagal ng hiwalay
friendhahaha!!!!
friendat planning din nmn sympre na magpa annulled
meay pangit yun
memay sabit pa rin yun
mewag kang ma inlove sa ganun
mekasi once binigyan mo ng oras yung taong yun
meunti unti bibigay ka
friendwat if un n lng last option ko?
meat kahit anong mali
mehindi mo na makikta
mekasi your hooked
friendim also hooked wid jong
friendpero nagising nmn ako
meat least wala syang anak
meo commitment
friendso dat will be better?
friendwala nga anak
friendif nde nmn din maka commit kahit kanino?
friendoh
friendtipong kahit maanakan ka
friendnde mag commit
meok lang basta magpaanak ka n lang
frienddat would be better?
friendthan d one who can commit to u
friendmeron lng nauna na family?
mepero dont expect na love k nya
meay mas pangit yun
mekasi masakit
mesa family nila
mekung hindi nila alam about you
mena magkaka anak yuung tatay nila sa ibang babae
mee kahit na
memaghiwalay muna sila
friendat ung asawa meron n din iba family
friendeh di ill wait 4 d annulment
mewell alam mo...ang bottom line lang nyan
friendden saka ko sha accept
mekung mahal mo at handa ka sa mga consequences...e di go for it
friendwat if i dont love d person
friendbut im 100% sure na mahal ako
friendu think mas ok ung ganun
friendkaysa ako ung may mahal
friendhahaha
me12/3/09 8:40 PMthen bakit ka papatol kung hindi mo mahal...?
meo gusto mo lang maanakan?
friendbec i wanted to have a baby
friendand someone who'll stay with me
friendna sure ako na mahal ako
friendhahaha
It's funny to think that sometimes even the most intelligent and successful women would deviate from their values just to have the love and affection they thought that would complete them. Yes, it's sad to be alone and it's harder when the time ticks and you feel like you're life is almost over. But hey, you're not alone. There are millions of women who share the same sentiments. Here's a clip which shows the same issue:
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